9As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Abide in my love.
10If you keep my commandments, you will abide in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commandments and abide in his love.
11These things I have spoken to you, that my joy may be in you, and that your joy may be full.
12[Jesus said:] “This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you.
13Greater love has no one than this, that someone lays down his life for his friends.
14You are my friends if you do what I command you.
15No longer do I call you servants, for the servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all that I have heard from my Father I have made known to you.
16You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you that you should go and bear fruit and that your fruit should abide, so that whatever you ask the Father in my name, he may give it to you.
17These things I command you, so that you will love one another.
God’s grace, peace and mercy are yours in Jesus Christ Who lives and loves you so that you may love others. Amen.
Introduction
Beloved, that is what God has declared us. There is nothing more mysterious than self-sacrificing love even though we see it clearly displayed in our precious mothers. You know that expression, “he has a face only a mother could love” and while we might be stingy, there is something placed in the hearts of parents by God’s grace that lets them love beyond reason.
That mystery of love isn’t exclusive to mothers. The mystery of love is precisely the gift of God’s grace that we are given and commanded to give. Let’s get something straight from the beginning – the command to love is the Law of God. We don’t love as purely as we are commanded, if we did we wouldn’t need to set aside a day to express love to our mothers, it would be done every day. Yet, God’s love is poured out on you and me through Jesus Christ, so that we can pour out that love to people around, even people we find unlovable.
The Father – source of all love
For all of the theological words we use to describe God, Omniscient, Omnipresent, omnipotent, etc. none of them have as much wonder as what John says in his epistle to the church, “God is Love.” It was from love that God created the world, not that God was lonely but that He wanted to express His love. And while life may not seem like God loves us, look at that picture of paradise that we find in the first chapters of Genesis – God placed humankind in the midst of the Garden of Eden where there was no doubt of the goodness of God’s love.
Even in the Fall, God continued to show His love. Rather than simply executing His justice on those who had broken His command, He promised even in His wrath to send someone who would take away the eternal consequences of sin and restore His creation back to His loving presence.
To do this wonderful thing required God’s love. It’s one thing to sacrifice something you don’t care about but it’s entirely another to sacrifice something or someone you love. God sent Jesus, His beloved son into this world to restore His creation. Jesus is loved by the Father in spite of what it looks like on Calvary. Remember the Father’s words at Jesus’ baptism and again at the transfiguration, “This is my beloved Son.” Jesus had no doubt of His Father’s love for Him, in the Garden of Gethsemane He was committed His life into His Father’s hands, and at the Cross of Calvary He committed His soul into His Father’s hands. Jesus had complete confidence in His Father’s love and because of that walked even the painful road to the cross.
Even more than Jesus’ confidence we too can see the Father’s love for Jesus because the Father raised Jesus from the dead (Rom. 10:9). Just as the scriptures declare, He didn’t let His holy one see decay.
Jesus loves His disciples
As the Father loved Jesus, Jesus loved His disciples. You might have wondered why the Gospel’s record Jesus calling His disciples to follow Him, and at least one answer is that He needed those men to receive His love. I am reminded of how one dramatization of the calling showed Jesus calling from among the crowd the disciples like someone picking teams on the playground. And we usually think about strong and honorable men among those twelve, but this text makes me think that those twelve were not the cream of the crop. You have fishermen and tax collectors one is suspected of being a thief and they give him the treasury to hold; no even in calling these men Jesus was choosing to show His love to people because He chose to show His love.
And Jesus continued to love His disciples despite their weaknesses. Remember Peter? Jesus continued to love Peter even when Peter tried to derail the entire journey to Jerusalem and Jesus had to call Peter Satan. Jesus continued to love Peter even when Peter denied Jesus three times that dark night while Jesus was enduring the trial from the Sanhedrin. Jesus continued to love Thomas even while Thomas refused to believe the words of the other disciples that Jesus had risen from the dead. Jesus continued to love Judas even knowing from the beginning that Judas would be the one to turn Him over to His enemies.
Jesus loves all of His disciples, including you and me. You and I know what is in our hearts, how we have forsaken Christ for our own goals. We have looked at God’s creation as a source of our own pleasure and self-satisfaction. We have looked at people as a means to our own ends instead of fellow redeemed. We have looked at God’s Word as a burden to study and read instead of the blessed gift of life. We have even looked at the gathering of the saints as an hour out of OUR lives instead of a gathering to share in God’s blessings. And still Jesus loves us. Creation continues even in its fallen state to provide so much for us through the Father. The ink has not disappeared from the Bible and the doors have remained open to invite us into God’s presence.
Jesus continues to love us by giving His gifts in Word and Sacrament. The Baptismal promises have not gotten any weaker because of our unfaithfulness, but remain strong because of Jesus love for every sinner. The gift of His body and blood is still there in, with, and under the bread and wine so that we may have God’s love. And Jesus continues to love you today because He is alive.
Now it’s our turn to love
Now it’s our turn to love. Our Father has poured out His love on Jesus who in turn pours out His love on us, what do you suppose is next? We have been loved so that we can love others. This is what it means to be God’s creation, God’s Holy People – to love as we have been loved.
Shall I give you an argument to love? Listen to what Jesus’ says in this passage, “These things I have spoken to you that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be full.” Or remember that Jesus said, it is more blessed to give than to receive? Think about how ridiculous the church would look if baptism were contained is some bubble and you couldn’t come near it, or if the Holy Supper were just set up here and all you could do was stare at it? These things would not be gifts but cruel jokes like a mirage in the dessert promising refreshment and giving death. No, Jesus has poured out His love into you that you may love.
In fact, if you withhold love there is a greater issue. You are breaking God’s command, plain and simple. You are willingly sinning and causing God’s love to come to a stagnant. You know that in the middle east there is a sea called the dead sea – named because there is nothing lives in those waters – it is too salty for anything to live. The dead sea has become so salty because for centuries the rivers have poured water into it but there is no outlet and as the sun evaporates the pure water from the sea, the salts and minerals are left behind.
As God has poured an abundance of love into us through His Son, we have that abundance of love to pour out into the world around us. Instead of being critical of what people are, we can love them as God as loved us. Someone once said that if you want to be accepted go to a bar, if you want to be judged, go to a church. Do we judge? Sure we do, when we decide who is and isn’t worthy to receive our love because of the way they behave, the choices they have made or what they look like.
I know it’s hard, I’m not immune to those same thoughts – the ordination, collar and robe haven’t scared Satan away far enough that he doesn’t whisper those thoughts into my ears too. What is important is for us to confess those sinful thoughts and pray God’s grace to love despite our reluctance to love.
Conclusion
Jesus loved us by pulling us out of our sins and setting us on the rock of His love. We can love people by reaching out to others through any means at our disposal to experience God’s love. Jesus gives some examples of what that love looks like – visiting the sick, comforting those who grieve, giving to the poor, speaking up for those who are silenced, these are just a few. In fact, you could get a bigger picture of what God wants by applying the Golden Rule – what have you received, that is what you are to give away.
The greatest love you can give to someone is to bring them to know Christ Jesus. Just as mothers have for centuries spent time with their children teaching them the Word of God, you too can speak to your neighbor, friends, relatives, and enemies at just the right time for them to hear and receive the blessings of Christ.
